A few nights ago I came home from a 12 hour shoot, dead tired, but too addicted to facebook to just go to bed, and I got this picture on my notification.
This pictures of my bride and groom eating cookies I sent them. It took two minutes out of their day, but it made me so thrilled to see them happy and enjoying their treats. It made my whole night because when I come home feeling like I got ran over by a truck something like this reminds me why I love my job.
It made me think about all the little things in our life that in essence seems small, but in reality make us much happier than big grand gestures.
The other day I was listening to Trevor Dayley on showitlive and he was talking about how he brings a speaker system to each shoot. He hooks his iphone into it and plays jams to loosen his grooms….and I thought wow, what a really simple idea that makes a huge statement to who you are.
A couple of weekends ago one of my 2nd shooters helped my bride out by helping her knot a tie and I remember the bride saying, “WOW, you really saved the day.” Who would of thought something as simple as knowing how to knot a tie made such a difference? That day, it was one less thing she had to worry about it and I was so grateful that he could be there for her.
My husband is out of town for the weekend and as I am sitting here at my computer editing into the wee hours of the night I get a text from him, two words, “pretty woman”. Sorta like an “I love you”, but so much more. He’s thinking about me and in his mind I’m still pretty even though I’m sitting here in sweats with raccoon eyes from wearing black eye shadow all day. Then this made me think about how he took out the trash today before he left because he knows I hate to do it or when he did the dishes for 3 nights in a row because my eyes and hands were too glued to my computer. I mean, he could buy me all the diamond rings in the world, but it’s when he does these little things that makes me really feel like he’s taking care of me.
I guess what I’m saying is don’t discount how the little things you do effect others. These small gestures become a significant way to build friendships. Not everything you do has to be big, grand and perfect. Sometimes a two word text and a batch of cookies makes smiles all the same.
LOVE this post!! The little things are definitely the most important!